My male partner likes to wear my lingerie and it's becoming a
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I've tried to be understanding, but he gets angry and says I'm making him feel like a freak. What can I do?
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My boyfriend called me his ex's name during sex
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I resent my older partner's demanding children
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My boyfriend called me his ex's name during sex
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Our sex life is suffering after my girlfriend's father died
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My male partner likes to wear my lingerie and it's becoming a
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I can't stop flirting and it's ruining my relationships
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Our sex life is suffering after my girlfriend's father died
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My male partner likes to wear my lingerie and it's becoming a
![](https://i.guim.co.uk/img/static/sys-images/Guardian/About/General/2013/5/16/1368701672578/Flirting-at-work.-010.jpg?width=465&dpr=1&s=none)
I can't stop flirting and it's ruining my relationships